First, a rec.
Trisha's Boys.Summary: What if Trisha Elric had been Ishbalan?
This is a very good and also a very painful read. Highly recommend it.
Second, a post that resonated with me deeply for tmi/tl;dr reasons.
Puel's Penetration Post. (it's alliterative) Third, and finally, lol Misandry (blame ontd).